41 things at 41
Hello, my Witchy Wanderers! Happy weekend! This is a time to unwind from the week's demands, reconnect with yourself, and nurture the relationships that bring you joy. Whether you indulge in hobbies, spend time in nature, or simply relax at home, weekends offer a precious opportunity to recharge. Embrace the serenity of this break and consider setting aside time for mindfulness or spiritual practices that resonate with you. Let the weekend's energy refresh your spirit and inspire new intentions for the days ahead.
This is a super auspicious weekend, as tomorrow marks my 41st birthday. Turning 41 invites a powerful wave of transformation and insight, aligning beautifully with the energies surrounding this time of year. It symbolizes stepping into a new cycle, rich with potential and growth opportunities. Many traditions suggest that birthdays hold special significance, serving as a personal new year to reflect, set intentions, and embrace new beginnings. As I prepare to celebrate, I am open to the magic and possibilities this milestone year has in store.
I am super excited about turning 41, as birthdays provide a wonderful opportunity to set intentions for the coming year. Embracing this new chapter, I look forward to reflecting on my journey so far while envisioning the growth and experiences ahead. This time feels ripe for clarity and purpose, making it the perfect moment to manifest my desires and align my actions with my goals. With each passing year, I gain more wisdom, and I am eager to channel that into meaningful changes and new adventures.
This birthday, I wanted to honestly acknowledge and take note of the incredible life I have had the privilege to live. As I reflect on my journey thus far, I am overwhelmed and filled with gratitude for the many experiences that have shaped me—each significant twist and turn, the valuable lessons learned, and the lasting relationships forged along the way. The moments of pure joy and the various challenges I have faced have all contributed immensely to a profound understanding of myself and my place in the wider world. This remarkable milestone is a potent reminder to cherish the past, embrace the present wholeheartedly, and look forward to the future with unwavering optimism and clear intention.
A nectar list is a collection of goals, intentions, or desires individuals create to identify what brings them joy and fulfillment. This practice encourages personal reflection and helps to clarify what truly resonates with an individual, often leading to a deeper understanding of their values and aspirations. By actively curating a nectar list, individuals can prioritize their energy and focus on the pursuits that nourish their spirit, fostering a more intentional and satisfying life. It serves as a guide for decision-making and can be revisited and revised over time, making it a dynamic tool for personal growth and self-discovery.
Creating my own list of 41 significant experiences, lessons, and achievements by the age of 41 feels deeply rewarding. Each item on this list represents a unique facet of my journey—be it the skills mastered through dedicated practice, the wisdom gained from both successes and failures, or the profound connections with others that have enriched my life. From the transformative power of witchcraft teachings to the moments of introspection during quiet nights alone with my thoughts, every entry captures essential growth. This reflective exercise not only honors my past but also serves as a guiding light for the future, reminding me of the path I've traveled and the person I continue to become.
While this list isn't exactly witchy, I wanted to write a little more of a personal entry today. In reflecting on my journey, I realize how the mundane aspects of life often weave into the fabric of my practice. Simple moments—like a quiet sunrise or herbal tea—can ground me and bring clarity. It’s easy to get caught up in spells and rituals, but I've learned that pausing to appreciate the small details reveals the magic present in every day. Embracing this perspective helps foster a deeper connection to my path and reminds me that the sacred can be found in extraordinary and ordinary moments.
So here they are: my 41 things to accomplish by the time I reach 41. This list reflects a deep and meaningful journey of personal growth and exploration. Each item on this carefully curated list represents a significant stepping stone toward embracing life more fully, with the sincere intention of aligning my actions with my most authentic self as I eagerly look forward to this milestone age.
41 things by 41 ( in no particular order)
I have traveled and been to around 20 different countries
I have backpacked through Europe
I have written two books
I have a BA and four certifications
Swam with dolphins
Walked with wild horses
Cannoed through pirate caverns and coves
Snorkeled to sunken ships
Fed Giraffes
Rode an elephant
Live in serval different cities
Designed a sushi restaurant in London
Lived in London
I got deported from London
Got invited to the Olympics for horse riding
Know weaponry, including guns, swords, and archery
I saw all the HP films in theaters, including London premieres
I have nine children: 8 fur babies and one human
I had the wedding of my dreams and married the love of my life
I have read over 1ooo books
I own over 2000 movies
I have spelunked through castle ruins in Spain
I snuck into rooms in the Palace of Versailles
I once snuck into the Eifle tower and reached the top without getting caught.
I have made the most amazing “chosen” family
I grew up in a 250-year-old historic plantation
I have had three past life regressions
Saw the original Opera house from the story Phantom of the Opera
Seen the catacombs of Paris
I crashed some significant events with my dad
I have been to some of the most amazing concerts and festivals (before they cost an arm and a leg)
I met Anne Rice and saw her house in New Orleans
I saw the original Platform 9 3/4 before it was moved
Saw the redwood forest
Visited the Winchester Mansion
I have been to the Bermuda Triangle
I crashed a famous DJ’s birthday party dressed as a pirate
I have joined in protests and spoken up for others who didn’t have a voice
Driven across the country both ways more than ten times
I have been to almost every place in North America
Met Alice Cooper and several other musicians when my family was in the music industry
Wow, I didn’t even realize how much I could put in one list. I had to stop myself from continuing.
I have lived a truly magical and blessed life filled with moments woven from the tapestry of the universe itself. Each day brings its own enchantments, whether it’s the whisper of the wind through the trees or the gentle glow of candlelight during evening rituals. I have embraced the teachings of nature, finding solace in the changing seasons and the rich wisdom they impart. Connections with kindred spirits have deepened my understanding of the magical threads that bind us all, transforming ordinary experiences into moments of wonder. This journey, guided by intuition and curiosity, reminds me that the mundane and the extraordinary are often intertwined, painting my life with hues of gratitude and joy.
I am excited about the next 41 years of my life and all I will do, see, and accomplish. This journey holds endless possibilities, and each new experience will shape my understanding of the world and my place within it. I look forward to deepening my practice, exploring new realms of knowledge, and connecting with diverse communities. There are dreams to realize, challenges to embrace, and wisdom to gain that will enhance my path. With each passing year, I am determined to cultivate both personal growth and the impact I make in the lives of others, celebrating every milestone along the way.
Thank you for stopping by The Wandering Hedge Witch. Each moment spent exploring our shared interests in witchcraft and personal growth contributes to a rich tapestry of knowledge and understanding. I encourage you to explore the resources available and hope you find inspiration and guidance along your journey. Your presence is fantastic!
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