How to perform a cord cutting
Hello my Witchy Wanderers,
Hello my witchy wanderers! How are you fairing this retrograde so far? We are just a few days away from Mercury direct—thank the Gods! While we will still have a two-week shadow phase, at least we made it this far. This retrograde may have thrown some delightful curveballs your way, but hold onto your broomsticks; brighter skies are just around the corner.
Take a moment to reflect on the lessons learned, and don’t forget to sprinkle a little extra magic into your daily rituals. We’re almost out of the woods, so let’s prepare to embrace the cosmic energy that’s about to unfurl! ✨🧙♀️
This retrograde brought a tidal wave of emotions and truths bubbling to the surface, reminding me that the universe has a knack for timing. Old wounds and unresolved feelings danced in front of me like mischievous sprites, eager to be acknowledged instead of buried in the shadows. Each reflection felt like an invitation to heal, to embrace the messy and the magical alike. I discovered that dealing with these surfacing issues wasn’t just a chore; it was a chance to reclaim my power and transform past pain into a wellspring of wisdom. As I leaned into this process, the playful energy of retrograde became my creative catalyst, urging me to weave new stories from the threads of my healing journey.
I realized I needed to cut a very major cord
If you've been following me for a while, you'll know I have a family member who's a perfect storm of toxicity, narcissism, and an abundance of powerful magic. It’s like living with a walking cauldron of chaos, filled to the brim with their own self-importance and a knack for manipulation.
Their energy can be both mesmerizing and draining, making it a tricky balance to navigate family gatherings while safeguarding my own magickal essence. It’s a constant dance of boundaries, both magical and emotional, as I learn to shine brightly without getting caught in their shadow. Embracing my own power amidst their turbulence is both a challenge and a lesson in resilience!
About a year ago, I realized I needed to distance myself from them for the sake of my wellbeing, as well as my husband’s and daughter’s. It was a tough choice, but the toxic energy that surrounded those relationships was seeping into our home, turning our sacred space into a battleground of negativity. I could feel the weight of their expectations and judgments pressing down on us, making it harder to thrive as a family. Embracing a lighter path led me to prioritize the joy and peace that we truly deserved, allowing us to blossom without the shadows of their influence looming over us. With every step away, I felt as if I was shedding a heavy cloak and inviting in the sun’s warm embrace.
This retrograde brought a whirlwind of revelations, unveiling the dark magic woven around me like a shadowy shroud. As the veil of illusions lifted, I discovered the invisible cords tethered to my spirit, draining my energy, magic, and confidence. Each memory seemed to bind me tighter, siphoning away my essence, leaving me feeling like a flickering candle in a tempest. It was a wake-up call, a reminder that I had the power to sever these ethereal ties, reclaiming my light and vibrant energy. The journey to reclaim my magic became not just a battle against the dark but a dance of liberation, illuminating the strength that had always resided within me.
One night, as the moon cast her silvery glow through the window, I found myself deeply engaged in my devotional to Hecate, the mistress of magic and the night. Suddenly, a soft whisper drifted through the air, swirling around me like a warm breeze: "Cut the cords." The words echoed in my heart, clear and urgent, revealing the entanglement I had with a person whose energy cloaked me in shadow and despair. I felt the weight of their curse upon my spirit, binding me to a cycle of harm and negativity. With Hecate’s guidance illuminating my path, I understood that the time had come to sever those ties, to reclaim my power, and to step into the light of liberation that awaited me on the other side.
It was time!
A Cord Cutting Ritual
Items I used:
Two Candles
Burnable twine
Elements of Earth, Air, Fire and Water
The first thing I do before any ritual is cleanse the space around me, setting the stage for magic to flow freely. I sprinkle a bit of salt in the corners, gather some sage, and let the smoke twist and twirl through the air, chasing away any lingering energies that don't belong. With each sweep of my hands, I invite in clarity and focus, clearing away distractions.
Once I've created my sacred sanctuary, I take a deep breath, centering myself in the present moment. I close my eyes and reach out to connect with my Goddess, feeling her presence envelop me like a warm embrace. In this space of purity and intention, I am ready to weave the tapestry of my ritual, armed with the love and wisdom of the divine.
Next, I raise my powers, calling upon the elements to weave their magic through the air, earth, fire, and water, their energies swirling like a dance of vibrant colors around me. I invoke the guardians of each direction, their ancient wisdom guiding my intentions as I stand firm in the sacred circle. To the north, I feel the grounding strength of Earth; to the east, the clarity of Air; to the south, the passionate flames of Fire; and to the west, the fluid embrace of Water. With a deep breath, I summon Hecate herself, the wise and mysterious crone, to watch over my ritual with her watchful eyes, her presence a protective cloak that envelops me in magic and possibility, guiding this sacred space as I tap into the depths of my witchy soul.
To perform the cord cutting, I set the stage with two flickering candles, their flames dancing in rhythm like the ebb and flow of our connection. A string, woven with intention, is tied between them—a tangible representation of the bond I wish to sever. One candle stands proudly for myself, glowing with my energy, while the other embodies the individual whose influence lingers too long in my life. As I ignite the candles, I focus on the string connecting them, visualizing it fraying and dissolving, releasing any energetic ties that no longer serve my highest good. In this sacred act, I reclaim my power and create a space for new beginnings, with every crackle of the flame signaling liberation from the past.
As the candles burn down, their warm glow flickers like the heartbeat of the frame around me, and I grasp my wand firmly, feeling its energy pulse in my hand. With each graceful sweep, I visualize the cords of attachment tethering me to this particular person, shimmering like gossamer threads in the candlelight. As I move the wand over my body, I channel my intention, focusing on each connection that needs severing; with a swift and deliberate motion, I energetically cut through these ties. I can almost hear the soft snap of release, a symphony of liberation as I reclaim my own space, the lingering shadows of their influence dissipating into the ether. With each stroke, I invite clarity and rejuvenation, allowing the light of my own essence to shine freely once more.
As the final notes of my ritual danced in the air, I took a moment to honor the time spent with this person, reflecting on the lessons learned and the bonds formed. With a gentle wave of my hand, I released any lingering grievances, forgiving them and sending out waves of shimmering light to envelop their spirit. A soft whisper of gratitude bubbled within me as I called upon Hecate, thanking her for her watchful presence and guidance throughout this sacred ritual. With a heart full of gratitude, I closed the circle of magic, feeling the energies intertwine and settle, leaving me grounded and peaceful, ready to embrace the world anew.
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