I refuse to prove anymore

Hello my friends,

Happy Friday and the joyous arrival of the first official day when it’s perfectly acceptable to celebrate the holidays without reservation. Black Friday buzz is in full swing, blending seamlessly with the comforting aftermath of leftovers and the inevitable food hangovers from the decadent treats we've allowed ourselves to indulge in. It’s a time to embrace the season’s magic, savoring both the festive abundance and the moments of quiet reflection that follow.

First and foremost, Black Friday, a major day of shopping, originated after a stock market crash in the late 1800s. Initially marking a turning point in financial markets, it evolved into the unofficial start of the holiday shopping season. Today, Black Friday is synonymous with bustling stores, eager shoppers, and significant sales. It serves as both a cultural phenomenon and a pivotal moment for retailers, where consumers strategically scour for deals to kick off their holiday purchases with intention and savvy.

But something a lot of people forget is that huge corporations and stores cast a large shadow over small businesses. I see it more and more every year—people rushing to larger stores to snag a deal, often at the expense of local artisans, unique shops, and the vibrant communities they support. A few years ago, I made a promise to myself to shop small as much as possible, recognizing that each purchase from a small business is not just a transaction but an investment in dreams, creativity, and the soul of our neighborhoods. Supporting small businesses is a conscious act of resistance against the homogenization of our marketplaces and a way to honor the personal touch and authenticity that corporate giants can never replicate.

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I refuse to prove anymore

Tomorrow, Mercury finally goes direct after its challenging three-week retrograde cycle. Although we still have two weeks remaining in its shadow period, the energy begins to shift, allowing clarity and forward momentum to return. I am deeply thankful that this transit is almost over, as Mercury retrograde often stirs confusion and delays. Now, we can look forward to renewed communication, clearer decisions, and smoother navigation through our daily lives.

This Mercury retrograde transit started out super slow for me, a subtle undercurrent of reflection that barely registered at first. Yet, as the weeks unfolded, the energy intensified, culminating in a crescendo of deep transformation and healing. What began as minor delays and miscommunications evolved into profound opportunities to confront lingering shadows, realign with my true path, and release patterns no longer serving my growth. This retrograde was not merely a disruption but a powerful invitation to recalibrate and emerge renewed.

The biggest situation that came up for me during this retrograde cycle was proving myself. For as long as I can remember, I have been compelled to demonstrate my value—to family, chosen friends, teachers, bosses, and romantic partners alike. This constant need for validation is draining, a relentless quest for external approval. The past few weeks of retrograde illuminated the areas where I was still caught in this exhausting pattern, revealing the deep-seated insecurities driving my actions. It was a stark reminder that true worth doesn’t require proof, but acceptance from within—a lesson that this cycle brought into sharper focus.

I needed to start validating myself because true worth cannot be measured by the approval of others. It was essential to recognize that my value existed independently of external validation, and that constantly proving myself to the wrong people only drained my energy and diminished my spirit. The real power comes from choosing self-respect and affirming my own strengths, rather than seeking fleeting acceptance from those who do not appreciate my authentic self. This shift in perspective allowed me to reclaim my confidence and embrace my path with clarity and purpose.

By the end of the day yesterday, I knew with unwavering certainty that it was time to begin a new chapter in my life—one grounded in confidence, enriched by knowledge, and fueled by a deep sense of self-worth. The clarity that emerged was not sudden but a culmination of reflection and growth, a turning point where past lessons align seamlessly with future aspirations. Embracing this moment, I step forward with purpose, ready to manifest the changes that honor my true path and inner strength.

So if this resonates with you, know that you do not need to prove yourself to anyone. Your worth is inherent, untouched by outside validation or expectations. As Mercury goes direct today, take a deep breath and allow clarity to return to your thoughts and communication. This is a perfect moment to move forward with confidence, releasing any doubt or hesitation that may have held you back. Embrace the flow of clear energy and trust that your path is unfolding exactly as it should.

Big hugs,

Rebecca